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"Strive for the greater gifts
and I will show you a still more excellent way."

-  1 Corinthians 12:31

 


 

Magic Mirrors

Have you ever wished you had a fairy godmother?

We are all sometimes like the fairy tale character, Cinderella, with our dignity and beauty hidden by circumstances that create the illusion that we are unworthy, unimportant, or even ugly. We wish for our true value to be brought forth. Somewhere deep within, we know that we are noble beings with enormous potential. 

Fairy godmothers do appear in our lives but they don’t look like a Disney version. What shows up is not a plump, cheery woman with a magic wand but someone with a magic mirror. The mirror may be in the form of compassionate words from a friend, a synchronistic connection with a stranger, a story that offers insight, a song that stirs a memory. A magic mirror can be anything that affects a shift in the way we perceive ourselves, which results in transformation. 

We all have the ability to be magic mirrors that reflect truth and help others see their inner richness. Today, and every day, let’s be magic mirrors, reminding one another that we are noble and of royal blood, as Meister Eckhart said in the fourteenth century, and that we are all born rich with access to vast spiritual treasure.

 

 


 

Focus on Strength

May you remember to call upon it whenever you need it.

Consider some of the many aspects of the gift of strength expressed in these quotes:

“I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.”—Anna Freud

“Nothing is so strong as gentleness, and nothing is so gentle as true strength.”—Ralph Sockman

“Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.”—Eric Hoffer

“Everyone should carefully observe which way his heart draws him, and then choose that way with all his strength.”—Hasidic Saying 

In her book, Still Woman Enough, Loretta Lynn says, “When you look back over your life and see how much you’ve had to face, and how you’ve dealt with it, it’s interesting to try and pinpoint the first time you faced something that might tear you apart. The first time you had to reach inside yourself and pull out strength you didn’t know you had, strength that hadn’t even been needed until then.”

For reflection, journaling and discussion

Do you consider yourself to be a “strong” person?

When have you used strength to complete a project?

To face a challenge? To follow a dream? To be present in a situation?

What “makes you strong?”

What are your “tools” for strength?

How do you access strength when you face a challenge? 

From what activities do you draw strength?

What nourishes you? What stirs a feeling of empowerment?

Is there an area in your life where you would like more strength to flow?

 

 

When feeling fear, remember:
 

“If I’m afraid, it doesn’t mean that I’m not brave.

And if I doubt, it doesn’t mean that I’ve lost faith.

And if I fall, if doesn’t mean I can’t go on.

And if I cry, it doesn’t mean that I’m not strong."

-- Jana Stanfield & Karen Taylor-Good, Doesn’t Mean That I’m Not Strong from Jana Stanfield’s CD, Brave Faith

Consider this activity:

Upon waking or before you begin your work day, remove an ice cube from your freezer and place it in a cup, saucer, or bowl. Set the container in a place where it will remain undisturbed.

See the ice cube as representing fear, your own fear in all the ways it shows up, as well as fear in the world. You may wish to use a cube for each fear you identify.  Silently or out loud say, “This represents fear. I am willing to allow my feelings of fear to soften and melt away today.”

Go about your day.

Later in the day, bring your attention again to the container. Notice the water now in the liquid state. See it as representing fear transformed. In your own way, bless the water. Use this water to nourish a plant in your home. Or, go outdoors and pour it onto a place where, symbolizing your intention of contributing to healing on Earth, this modicum of water can nourish some living thing.

 


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