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“Each soul comes to the Earth with gifts.” 
- Garry Zukav

 


ABOUT THE TWELVE GIFTS OF BIRTH

"I can't type for long.  My six-month baby girl, Alexandra, is in the next room and I don't like to leave her alone for too long.  She is hooked up to a ventilator.  She just came home for the first time last week.   She is a precious gift to me and my husband.  I was just lying on the floor of her room, taking a nap with her on my chest.  After a phone call woke us, I started reading to her.  I was reading The Twelve Gifts to her and had tears in my eyes before I was done.  I will continue to read it to her all her life, and probably will cry more.  She is a strong and courageous baby girl, and has only begun to learn about all of her gifts.  The book is a gift to us, and she is a gift to me, and will be a gift to this world, I am certain, as she grows.  Thank you for this beautiful piece of art.  The words are extremely meaningful.  Continue to spread the message!" -- Sincerely, Marisa  

"I want to thank you for the wonderful gift that you have given me and other survivors of abuse.  I fell in love with your book The Twelve Gifts of Birth the first time I saw it.  I am currently in therapy working through the hurts of the past.  Your book gives me the courage to continue therapy and it helps me to know I am special in many different ways.  The page that begins 'At the wondrous moment you were born,' brings tears to my eyes EVERY time I read it.   Thank you so much!!" -- Liz

"Your book deeply touched my soul.  It has such a meaningful and clear message of dignity and hope for us all." -- Connie

"What a beautiful book!  The Twelve Gifts of Birth is a simple but powerful message.   I intend to read it to children."  Wally Amos (Famous Amos)

"When I read your book it gave me goose bumps." -- Tonya

"I am a schoolteacher and feel that instilling a strong sense of self worth is one of the most important things I can do for my students.  Your book helped me to do that this past school year.  Before I read it aloud, I wondered if they would enjoy it as much as I had.  Fifth graders, just beginning adolescence, are hard to predict.  They were spellbound! -- Gigi Dhindsa

"I love this book.  It touched me deeply and I've seen it affect others.  I gave a copy to a 13-year-old boy I tutor.  Both he and his mom cherish it so much, they read it together and discuss its message everyday.  I highly recommend The Twelve Gifts of Birth." -- Mary Lee South

"Had to share my experience after reading your powerful words.  I was 7 months pregnant when I came across your book at a local Hallmark and thanks to your worlds and my hormones I found myself crying in the middle of the shop.  Thanks for putting into words what all people are capable of." -- Tracy W.

"The Twelve Gifts of Birth offers a healing, life affirming message.  It is no wonder that many children and adults are deeply touched by it.  I highly recommend it." -- Gerald G. Jampolsky, author

"The children are still talking about your visit and the message in your book.  You have made a lifelong impression." -- Paula Knouse, KidsPeace

"These gifts are the wealth of the soul.  I was moved to tears when I read it and recognized my own gifts and even more so when I read it to the children who have been labeled as hopeless.  I watched their eyes brighten and their spirits lift as they heard the powerful gifts that lie dormant inside of them." -- Momma Hawk, Founder, Recovering Gifted Child Academy

"The Twelve Gifts of Birth helped me to realize how valuable I am as a unique human being and then to realize that my children, my 9-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter, need to know how gifted they are." -- Linda R.

"Your book touched me in a special way.  I bought it for a dear friend who spent years trying to conceive.  She now has a beautiful daughter and I wanted to give her a special gift.  I did - your book.  It has a message that is imperative for every child to know.  If they did, the world would be a better place." -- Tracy K

"I love the picture in your book of small rocks...when my sixteen year old daughter was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Disease I felt as though my life was fractured.  Nine years of chemotherapy, radiation and surgery were a success.  We fought.  We won.   Small steps, one by one, often minute by minute taught us NEVER, NEVER, NEVER give up!  Thank you so much - what you are doing is being measure." -- Aileen K.

"I recently lost my sister to cancer and a brother to an accident.  I too have dreams about making a difference in the world and cherishing what is precious in my life.   Thank you for making me remember my dreams." -- Vicki A.

"The gift of faith was really tested by our family when our daughter developed cancer.  I am giving the book to her brother who felt it was his fault because he had not prayed enough.  He is now 38 years old.  Thank you." -- B. Stephens

"Someone very special to me told me the other day that his mother told him he was a 'mistake'.  Can you believe it?  Then yesterday I was listening to the news and heard about your book.   Somebody knew I needed to hear about your message so I could share it with him.   This is a 'must have' for everybody, for all ages." -- Carol C.

"Your book certainly hits home with me, as I have a 15-year-old son with Down syndrome.   Ever since he was born I felt that whatever I 'gave' him he would return to me two-fold and he has.  Thank you for your wonderful book!" -- Marianne H.

"I read about your book in the newspaper and knew I had to have it.  I just read it and it is even more beautiful that I anticipated.  Your words go right to the heard." -- Julie W.


ABOUT THE TWELVE GIFTS FOR HEALING

"I highly recommend this book! Any age or issue from physical healing to everyday problems. The book reads in a matter of a few minutes. Its message will resonate with you all day. It reunited me with my heart, and a willingness to be my authentic self. The message is simple, yet POWERFUL. It re-acquainted me with what I've always known though forgot to remember. And, gives me permission (and a responsibility) to 'go within' on a regular basis. For if 'We don't go within, we go without'. (I don't know who to credit for that saying).  Charlene, you are an angel on earth. May you receive the blessings you give to others."  Gerri Anne Armstrong (Michigan)

"Comfort and Courage ... This is an exceptionally beautiful and touching book. My daughter is being treated for non-Hodgkin's lymphoma and The Twelve Gifts for Healing brought comfort and courage to her, my cancer patient friends and to me."  Diane K. (Scottsdale, AZ)

"Truly Inspiring - While reading this book I actually was talking to myself , saying things about how nice but simple the whole presentation was, but then.....suddenly the complex and powerful, deep meaning had an overwhelming effect on me. I have Lymphoma and had just finished not so fun chemotherapy. My background as a college football player gave me the strength and courage to put up a strong fight and deal with the many side affects chemo creates. I knew I needed to have a very positive outlook to whip this thing and everyone felt I had it under control. Never missed a day of work, came in, in the afternoons, after treatments in the mornings. But the Twelve Gifts for Healing made me realize in order to heal I had to believe not just act. It made me realize I needed to release the bitterness and anger that I still harbored internally. I have a quote that came to mind: 'Bitterness consumes the capsule that contains it' Twelve Gifts allowed me to release these feelings and actually forgive myself for becoming sick. Yes I felt guilty, must have deserved it somehow, I thought. This is truly a great book that delivers a powerful message and I hope many others are fortunate enough to experience it's healing inspiration. Cary (Dallas, TX)

“This book is a blessing, an inspiration, and an act of beauty and reverence.”   Joan Borysenko, PhD. - Author of Minding the Body, Mending the Mind 

“A magnificent gift. Let it open and heal your heart.”  Christiane Northrup, M.D. Author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom


ABOUT THE TWELVE GIFTS IN MARRIAGE

“The many years of wisdom that is contained within this book can be life changing. It is not only a fun book, but by living out its contents, your relationship with your spouse can be transformed. Life will be richer, deeper, and more fulfilling. This is wisdom that everyone needs to hear over and over again!”   Dr. Gary Smalley, author of The DNA of Relationships

"Wow! Share This Book With Your Friends!, The Twelve Gifts in Marriage is an insightful gift to everyone and a delight to read. It unveils the mystery of having a happy, healthy and successful relationship. Read this book with someone you Love!"  Larry James (Scottsdale, AZ CelebrateLove.com)

"The perfect gift to newlyweds, The story and messages in The Twelve Gifts of Marriage are so important that I give this book, along with a crystal to hang in the window, (as suggested in the story) to all my wedding couples."  L. Basler, (ordained minister, Webster, WI)

"The important side of marriage - Although the 'gifts' of marriage sound simplistic, they are, indeed, the basis of every marriage. If couples would review these at least weekly, perhaps they could keep the lines of discussion open and honest. J. Clancy (Connecticut)

"Depicted in beautiful photographs and illustrations, then told through the metaphor of an elderly and a youthful couple, The Twelve Gifts in Marriage, authored by Charlene Costanzo, shares wisdom culled from her 35-year marriage. A marriage can be filled with love, joy and the possibility of all life has to offer. The Twelve Gifts in Marriage is a present to share. A marriage relationship is a gift from GOD. What is your gift [marriage] saying to GOD?"   Valder Beebe (Valder Beebe Show, Dallas, Texas)

"It is best if you have read THE TWELVE GIFTS OF BIRTH before reading THE TWELVE GIFTS IN MARRIAGE. It extends the realization that it is up to you to recognize these wonderful gifts in you and your partner so that you can appreciate the depth of the relationship. Focus on the gifts, not at human weaknesses." The Flower Lady

"Life is ordinary, it has its ebb and flow. Loving makes it extraordinary. This book holds the simple secrets of sustaining life-long loving. The story reminds couples to use twelve inherent gifts to keep their love alive through the course of their marriage. As a therapist, I keep this book in the waiting room to share with waiting clients. I use it as an assignment for couples to read helping them find their way back to each other. I gift it to newlyweds so they can remember the daily practice of magical acts that will nurture real love."  Diana W. Baysinger, LMFT  Marriage and Family Therapist Private Practice (Tempe, AZ.)

"WOW!  The story, the pictures, and especially the ending with the couples comments. My eyes were not only reading but tearing as I reviewed the 41 yrs. my 'Bride', and I have spent together.  The bonds of marriage are so important, in ups and downs, through the years and this book does it all.  Should be mandatory reading for ALL couples of any age especially those about to embark into the life of marriage.  MAY THIS BOOK STAY IN CIRCULATION FOR YEARS TO COME." Ed Valvano (Marco Island, FL)

“A dozen marvelous insights into the magic of  marriage. This book itself is a gift to married couples everywhere.” – Gregory J.P. Godek, author of 1001 Ways to Be Romantic
 


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Photography Copyright (c) 2000 by Jill Reger
Artwork Copyright (c) 2000 by Wendy Wassink Atkinson