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Overview

 

Key Understanding:

We all have these twelve gifts as well as others within us.  The more we recognize and use our gifts, the more readily they will be available for us when we need them.  It is important to respect the gifts in ourselves and in others.  When we use our gifts and help other people to see theirs, we enrich our own lives and we make the world a better place.

Objectives:

  • To reinforce the message that each of us has inherent worth.

  • To build respect for self and all others.

  • To see that using our gifts can help each of us live well and make a contribution to the world.

  • To encourage students to become increasingly aware of their gifts and interested in using them.

Supplies:

Pre-K – Grade 1:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
A clear bowl of polished stones, more than one for each child, and plain small rock

Grades 2 – 3:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
Plain white paper plates, masking tape, pencils
A clear bowl of polished stones, more than one for each child, and plain small rock

Grades 4 – 6:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
Plain white paper plates, masking tape, pencils
A clear bowl of polished stones, more than one for each child, and plain small rock

OPEN LESSON

Set stage for respect, trust, and discovery. Use cue.

ENGAGE THE LEARNER

Reread The Twelve Gifts of Birth.

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

Ask the children if they have favorite gifts. Remind them that they have all the gifts within them.

Ask students: “Now that you know about each of the 12 gifts, do you have a favorite? Does one seem especially important to you?” Remind them that they each have all the gifts within them and others too, as the end of the story says. Discuss what some of those might be.

Ask students to recall thoughts and feelings when they first heard the story. Ask: “Did one gift seem most important? What gift(s) do you treasure the most now? Which gifts would you like to tap into more deeply?” Ask them to reflect on what they learned and discovered.

DEVELOP THE IDEAS

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

Encourage them to continue to notice ways they use their gifts and to look for the gifts in other people too. Encourage them to continue to notice ways they use their gifts and to look for the gifts in other people too. Focus attention on the book’s conclusion. Ask students what they feel is most important about the message at the end. Help them recognize that the story makes several points:

Now you know about your gifts. Use them well and you will discover others. Discuss what those might be, such as enthusiasm and curiosity. Point out that the story suggests that the world would change if everyone saw themselves and others this way. Ask students how they feel about this assertion.

EXPERIENCE AND APPLY THE LEARNING

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

If appropriate for your group of children, you may wish to close by giving each child a special token reminder of their gifts. Have a clear bowl filled with an assortment of polished stones, with one ordinary rock placed on top. Point out that sometimes we all feel happy and good about ourselves and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes we might feel like a plain old rock. Explain that when rocks are polished we can see their inner beauty. Explain further that no matter how we look on the outside, within each of us there is great beauty. Provide a polished stone to each student as a reminder of all the wonderful gifts they have inside them. Ask them to keep it in a safe place.

Provide each student with a plain white paper plate. Have students help one another tape the plate to their backs with masking tape. Have all students move about and write one positive quality they see in that person on everyone else’s plate. Have students remove plates and take in the good things that others see in them.

You may wish to close with symbolism offered by polished stones and a special token. Have a clear bowl filled with an assortment of polished stones, with one ordinary rock placed on top. Acknowledge that, although we are all valuable and gifted, we sometimes feel like an ordinary, worthless rock. Explain that when rocks are polished, their inner beauty is revealed. Stress that no matter how we look on the outside, within each of us there is beauty and value. Provide a polished stone to each student as a reminder of their value for the times they feel devalued. Suggest they keep it in a safe place. Point out that the stones offer three lessons:

Each of us contains beauty and value. Like the stones, we come in a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes. The stones are not perfect; nor are we.

Provide each student with a plain white paper plate. Have students help one another tape the plate to their backs with masking tape. Have all students move about and write one positive quality they see in that person on everyone else’s plate. Have students remove plates and take in the good things that others see in them.

You may wish to close with symbolism offered by polished stones and a special token. Have a clear bowl filled with an assortment of polished stones, with one ordinary rock placed on top. Acknowledge that, although we are all valuable and gifted, we sometimes feel like an ordinary, worthless rock. Explain that when rocks are polished, their inner beauty is revealed. Stress that no matter how we look on the outside, within each of us there is beauty and great value. Provide a polished stone to each student as a reminder of their value for the times they feel devalued. Suggest they keep it in a safe place. Point out that the stones offer three lessons:

Each of us contains beauty and value. Like the stones, we come in a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes. The stones are not perfect; nor are we.

SUMMARY AND EVALUATION

Review what was learned in this lesson. If time allows, have students share understandings. Encourage them to continue to recognize the gifts in themselves and help others to see theirs.

CLOSE LESSON

Create a ceremonial sense of having completed an important discovery. Use cue to end the lesson.


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