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Overview


Key Understanding:

Joy is a sense of delight and well-being. We all have it within us.   We are often aware of it when we are laughing and having fun.  But, even in sad or challenging times, joy is available to us. In those times, we are more likely to have a soft, quiet experience of joy rather than a loud, energetic one. Joy is always within us regardless of what is going on outside of us.   The shining sun is a good symbol for joy.  It is bright and delightful.  When clouds cover it, it is still there.  Sometimes our own joy shines brightly; sometimes it does not; but it is always there.

Objectives:

  • To recognize that each of us is born with this gift.
  • To identify ways we use this gift.
  • To understand at least a small aspect of this gift experientially.
  • To see how applying this gift can enrich our lives.

Supplies:

Pre-K – Grade 1:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
Treasure Chests, Treasure Cards from Lesson 1, crayons
A surprise created by you, perhaps using bubbles, an entertaining guest such as a balloon artist, author, or dog. (See lesson for ideas.)

Grades 2 – 3:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
Treasure Chests and Treasure Cards from Lesson 1, crayons or colored pencils
A surprise created by you.  (See lesson for ideas.)

Grades 4 – 6:

A copy of The Twelve Gifts of Birth
Student journals from Lesson 1
A surprise created by you.  (See lesson for ideas.)


OPEN LESSON
            Set stage for respect, trust, and discovery. Use cue.


ENGAGE THE LEARNER

Have students look at the 4-page section on joy in The Twelve Gifts of Birth. Read the text, “The sixth gift is Joy. May it keep your heart open and filled with light.”

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

Explain that today we are learning about our gift of joy. Showing the class the “clapping hands” and “bubbles” photos, ask students how the children in the photographs are feeling. Explain that these happy, good feelings are all a part of joy. We all are born with the gift of joy within us. Explain that even during sad times, this gift of joy is still inside of us.

Invite students to name things and situations that help them feel joy. Encourage them with prompts to expand their thinking to include numerous examples, such as seeing a rainbow, spotting the first robin in the spring, running, riding on bicycles and feeling the wind, smelling fresh cut grass, being with a best friend, playing in the ocean, a lake, or a pool, hearing birds sing, smelling pizza, the first (or last) day of school, and so on.

Point out that joy is sometimes experienced in fun, energetic ways, as the photos depict, and sometimes in soft, quiet ways.

Invite students to recall things and situations that have made them feel joyful when they were younger. Ask: “What made you happy? What made you laugh?” Ask students to consider things that bring out joy in them now. Brainstorm. Be expansive. Consider many situations.

DEVELOP THE IDEAS

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

Invite children to talk about times they feel joyful and things that make them feel happy, such as playing games, being with people they love, singing, dancing, seeing a rainbow, spotting the first robin in the spring, the first day of school, the last day of school, birthdays, holidays, seeing puppies and kittens, surprises. Explain that the nice feeling of joy is increased when we feel grateful for all the people and things that make us happy.

Point out that appreciation and gratitude increases our joy. Explain that when we stop and notice people or situations that help us feel happy, we feel even more happiness.

Explain that even during sad times, joy is still within us. We can feel a quiet joy during difficult times. Noticing beauty in nature, the kindness of others, and being kind to others can help us experience joy in sad times.

Joy helps us to be healthy and strong. Laughter is good medicine, as is quiet joy.

Notice that some of the things named are likely to be experienced with fun and laughter while others are experienced in a softer way. 

Help students see that with both “loud” joy and “quiet” joy, we have an open feeling in our hearts. Point out that gratitude increases joy.

Explain that joy is always within us, even during sad and difficult times. Discuss how we might open our hearts and tap into joy during such times, such as hearing birds sing, the affection shown by pets, a listening friend, doing a kind deed. Point out that joy is good for health.

EXPERIENCE AND APPLY THE LEARNING

Pre K – Grade 1

Grades 2 – 3

Grades 4 – 6

Surprise the children in some way that brings joy! Have an impromptu indoor snack party or an outdoor bubble-blowing party.  Or, bring in an entertaining guest, such as a balloon artist, author, or a therapy dog who has been trained to work with children. After the surprise, have children find the joy card in their treasure chest. Have them make the joy symbol above the word, using the color that seems to best represent joy.  Have them place their card back in the chest.

Surprise the children in a way that is likely to bring forth joy. Consider the ideas suggested for both younger and older students, such as have an impromptu party, bring in an entertaining guest, or cancel a test. Have students make the joy symbol on their joy card, write “I have” above the word and further decorate their card or depict an experience of joy on it in a creative way of their choosing.

Surprise students in a way that is likely to bring joy. You might consider canceling a quiz, having a pizza party, bringing in an entertaining guest, arranging a visit from a loving therapy dog. Considering doing something that is fun for them (and you!) within the limits of your available time and resources.

After the surprise, have students write about joy in their journals.



SUMMARY AND EVALUATION

Review what was learned about joy. If time allows, have students share understandings. Acknowledge that they have already been using joy and that they will use it in many ways in the future. Remind them they will continue to explore the use of other gifts in upcoming lessons.

CLOSE LESSON — Create a ceremonial sense of having completed an important discovery. Use cue to end the lesson.


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